I felt bad for possibly leading him on.
You may have opened up Pandora's box.
Yet the whole situation was sad.
I became frustrated and desperate, and started fantasising about sex with other men.
I told her about bigger men, since she really had no idea, and said she could try another man, since I had 13 to 15 sex partners before we were married and she had none.
For the rest of the week she was cordial when we'd run into them, but he wouldn't even say hello to us.