If you find yourself in this predicament, you're probably wondering what to do.
Listen to him when he tells you what turns him on and what doesn't, just as he should be listening to you.
We think that it has to be this big song and dance, and that if our boyfriend really does feel that way about us, he has to say it with flowers and chocolate and a fancy dinner.
This fear could be predicated upon the fact that he knows you are off your birth control pills.
It also matters if he has kids with his ex—that makes a little more sense, Klow says.
Do you have specific advice you could give him on being a supportive partner to somebody in an emotional crisis? This is not necessarily a reflection on your relationship; your boyfriend may just need a bit more time alone.